TOO MUCH? OR JUST FULLY YOU?
- She Uprising

- 4 days ago
- 2 min read
Have you ever been told you're too much? Too loud. Too emotional. Too passionate. Too... everything.
At first, it stings. It makes you question yourself. Maybe you've even tried to shrink, tone down, hide parts of yourself to make someone else comfortable. But what if being "too much" isn't a flaw at all? What if it's actually your superpower?
THE TRUTH ABOUT "TOO MUCH" Here's the reality: when someone says you're "too much," it usually tells you more about them than it does about you. It's often about:
Their fear of intensity
Their discomfort with vulnerability
Their limits in handling authentic, raw emotion
"Too much" isn't a reflection of your worth - it's a reflection of their capacity.
WHY BEING "TOO MUCH" IS A COMPLIMENT IN DISGUISE
Let's be real: being labelled "too much" usually means you feel deeply, love fiercely, think boldly, and live fully. That's not too much - that's rare. That's the kind of energy the world needs more of. Your fire, your passion, your intensity - they aren't problems. They're gifts, even if some people can't handle them.
YOUR "TOO MUCH" IS MAGNETIC
Here's the magic: your intensity naturally repels those who can't handle it - and draws in the right people. People who celebrate your "too much" traits are the ones who:
Can match your energy
Value depth and authenticity
See your fire and want to join it, not dim it
Being "too much" becomes a filter - a way of finding those who truly belong in your life. OWN YOUR INTENSITY Stop apologising for being fully you. Stop dimming yourself to fit someone else's comfort zone. Your "too much" is your compass, your superpower, your signature. The right people won't call you "too much." They'll call you unforgettable. Think back to a time someone told you that you were "too much." How did it make you feel? What parts of yourself did you try to hide? Now imagine embracing all of it instead.


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